times are tough

Sometimes I wonder why life continues to throw challenges at us. Is it to see how strong we are? To help make us stronger? Why is it that when we finally get our ducks in a row and the sun is shining brightly someone has to come along and try to rain on our parade? Just accept that people move on and are happy, you don't have to try and continue to have control or try to make everyone miserable. I know this is a very sporatic post and makes no sense, I'm just so frustrated!